WHALE WISDOM AND WONDER AT THE BYRON BAY WRITING RETREAT

Sunrise at Sangsurya!

Q. What happens when you put 20 writers in a beautiful location overlooking breaching whales?

A. You get a whole lot of inspired writing and shared wisdom, that’s what!

From the carpark of our retreat centre, the spectacular Sangsurya in Byron Bay, we overlooked the sea and splashes from the tails of whales with their young ones heading south. 

Whales are magical creatures. According to my Animal Dreaming Oracle Cards by Scott Alexander King, whales are the record keepers, the holders of Mother Earth’s sacred records. The whale is a reminder to reconnect with the Earth Mother and to listen deeply into our own hearts to reveal the stories of our spirits and our ancestors. Perfect totem for our writing retreat!

Sangsurya was a maze of rooms, each unique and decorated with loving care and Asian artefacts, all surrounded in lush tropical gardens ablaze with blooms. I even had a bathtub! YAY! Not only that, a mosaic of a mermaid lay beneath me in the water. Happy days!

As we ate our incredible, delicious meals (every meal was a feast) prepared by Ronit, Sam and the team from Open Table we looked out to the sea and watched whales breaching and smacking the water with fins and tails. Then of course we had to stop watching and start writing! 

We crammed in as much information as we could into the writing workshops. Workshops covered all the elements of narrative for both memoirists and fiction writers – from writing in scenes to developing a character-driven plot to shaping a premise, structuring for success (the brain twisting workshop!) and pitching to publishers. 

And what a conscientious group of writers they were! Everyone turned up to workshops and yoga and even pranayama! How wonderful to have such eager participants.

As an extra bonus, the wonderful Matthew Bergan led a few of the yoga sessions, teaching us all some new moves with laughter in the mix.  And Kerstin had us all totally blissed out with her beautiful sound healing treatments with her singing bowls!

Between feasting and writing and chatting we had plenty of spaces to hide out and write when we had time between workshops, Monique’s miraculous bodywork treatments, one on one feedback and more feasting and chatting. New writing friendships were formed, which always makes me happy. Writers need other writers.

Plus, on our last day we danced up a storm with the joy infusion that was Lalita Lakshmi’s fun-filled, dressed up, high energy dance class. What fun! I may have been a little overexcited!

We finished our workshops with our traditional collage activity which I’m glad to say, even the most hesitant enjoyed with gusto.

Kindy photos below.

Don’t you just love those kindy grins 🙂

By the end of the retreat, we’d well and truly bonded as a group, and the goodbyes felt a bit like losing friends. Writing and sharing our stories connects us quickly on writing retreat, because we all share our deepest selves and the long and winding path to completing a book-length work. From YA witch stories, to 1989 HIV-impacted Darlinghurst, to outback orgies and memoirs of recovering ourselves after trauma, a guidebook to aging well, works that incorporated art and stories of our grandmothers, to middle aged romances; we had it all!

Thank you to all the wise and wonderful writers who joined us at this second last of our Transformational Writing Retreats. We are shutting up shop on these collaborative retreats with the talented and lovely Kerstin Pilz next year after Italy. 

Retreats are only as good as the people who come along, and this bunch of conscientious, hardworking, fun-loving writers made this a great one. Thank you everyone. Hope to see you again one day, maybe at your book launches!

Next retreat for me is Macleay Island in early November. Exciting! Marg applied for a RADF grant to get me out to their writing community and it worked. Local writing folk on limited incomes are welcome to join us.

Then next year April (9-11) is our Memoir and Life Writing Retreat (best for newbies) and August (6 -8) is our Feedback and Revision/Second Draft Retreat (best for those with a bit of work under their belts or those wanting to plan out a new book).

After packing up on the last morning, Kerstin and I headed to the beach and had a refreshing swim, then went up to the lighthouse to see the view. A beautiful young whale was swimming directly underneath the cliff, so close we saw the glisten of its skin and the glint in its eye as it rose gently to the surface. Must be a good omen, hey? 

May whale wisdom fill your stories with deep insight and inspiration.

Now go forth and write like the wind – free and without limits!

With lots of love,

Edwina  🙂 xx

HEAVEN ON A STICK – Incredible Italy Writing Retreat 2025 – Rundown

Incredible Italy Writing Retreat gang 2025
Incredible Italy Writing Retreat gang 2025 outside Terzo

Ever since Kerstin and I first saw photos of Terzo Di Danciano we felt drawn to hold a retreat there. The restored hilltop fortress looked like something out of a fairytale, filled with magic. Perfect for a writers’ retreat. But on our way, as we drove further and further into the remote forested hills of Tuscany bordering Umbria we wondered if perhaps we’d made the right decision. If it was too far from the crowds, if we’d be isolated, trapped like princesses in that tower.

Anna at her bedroom window - Incredible Italy Writing Retreat 2025

But as soon as we arrived and our delightful hosts, Krizsti and Luca, carried our bags up to our rooms and showed us around, we knew we’d found somewhere very special indeed. Every room is beautiful in its own way, some with Luca’s original artworks decorating the walls, some with restored frescoes, Anna’s door resplendent with angels. Sleek, modern, heated bathrooms, air-conditioning in every room, crisp ironed sheets and fresh flowers from the garden on the writing desks ticked every box. Magnificent views over the surrounding hills and valleys brought light and joy from every window. 

The yoga shala, in the converted barn, is every yogin’s dream. The floor in the shala has wide weathered wooden floorboards, polished and worn from use. Huge arched windows let in the sun and views and newly installed heating ensured we were toasty warm even on the coldest mornings.

Yoga shala - Incredible Italy Writing Retreat 2025

Downstairs from the fully equipped yoga room is the sublime spa. I thought I didn’t like saunas. I probably hadn’t had one for a couple of decades, but the twin saunas here – one steamy, the other infrared – made a huge difference to my enjoyment of the retreat. Usually, I’m working so hard I forget to relax and enjoy myself, but every afternoon I headed to the saunas and bubbling spa bath and emerged refreshed and renewed. I don’t know the science behind saunas, but it certainly felt like my whole nervous system was being soothed and rebooted. I’m hooked!

Eclipse Spa - Terzo Di Danciano
Eclipse Spa – Terzo Di Danciano – LOVED IT!

The main teaching rooms and dining hall cover the main floor of the converted barn, a huge pine fire roaring in the fireplace far into the night. Comfy lounges in cosy corners were perfect for chatting with other writers. We had tables to work at and Sergio and Anne-Claire and the team in the kitchen serving us delicious meals every few hours. But the breakfast room tops the lot. A recent addition to the centre, this stunning glass-walled suntrap makes the most of the stunning location and every morning we tramped down from yoga to find a sumptuous buffet of fruit, cereals, smoked salmon, cheeses and ham, breads and just about everything imaginable on your dream breakfast menu.

Most days when we woke, we looked out the windows to a sea of cloud below us, blanketing the valley as we princesses on the hill stretched and drank in the beauty as the sun came out and bathed us all in soft golden light. Yoga, breakfast, then a break before our daily workshops. With writers ranging from newbies to those with published books under their belts, we adjusted writing activities and content accordingly. Small feedback groups and genre buddies formed organically as writers met up in the afternoons to share work and run ideas by each other, if they weren’t writing up a storm on their own, that is. With only nine participants Kerstin and I had plenty of time to discuss projects with our guests, one on one, and I really enjoyed pulling tarot cards for everyone to help them grow, not only as writers but as people. I even pulled cards for our lovely hosts.

Highlights of the week include a fun excursion to Cortona, to St Francis’s hermitage, St Margarita’s spectacularly beautiful church and the long steep walk down the Roman roads into the ancient town, where some of us may have gone a bit art crazy and bought up big. Gelatos to top off the day, then home again. Lovely Bec had rented a car and led a smaller excursion to Assisi which was heartily enjoyed by those who went. Thank you Bec!

We had a ball at Sergio’s cooking class too, some more professional pasta makers than others, but all good eaters. However, when Sergio sang sad love songs on our live music night, he claimed a little of our hearts. The band was fantastic and before we knew it, we were all up dancing. What a ball we had! Patrizia showed us some fancy salsa moves, Anna swinging with her, the rest of us releasing our best disco moves (some unused for decades). Such fun! I’m just glad no footage survives of my shimmying. But boy, we had a good time.

This retreat was really something special. Even as facilitators, Kerstin and I emerged after our week of yoga, writing workshops, saunas, spas, massages and excursions feeling rested and replenished. I loved seeing people light up with epiphanies about their projects (and their lives), thousands of new words being written and new writing friendships developing. 

As always, we finished retreat with collages to shine light on our ways forward, working with images instead of words, planting seeds for the futures and books we’d like to create. 

With seven nights together, we really bonded as a group, and it was hard to say goodbye as everyone headed off on their own adventures (there were many!). For days after these retreats, people’s energies and writing projects stay with me. So from afar I send them bum glue, persistence, patience and creative epiphanies to bring their book dreams to life.

For a while Kerstin and I were so enamoured with Terzo Di Danciano we were determined to return in 2026 – until we regained our senses and realised we’re only human and need more time. 

So instead, we’ve booked back in to Terzo Di Danciano for the next Incredible Italy Writing Retreat for October 1- 8, 2027.  Details to be updated soon. If you’re super keen drop me a line and I’ll bags a spot for you before we even open for bookings!

That will give everyone enough time to save up, because let’s face it Europe is far and Euros expensive. BUT boy oh boy was it worth it? YES!! All the info HERE!

If you’ve always dreamed of your own Tuscan writing getaway, come and join us at this heavenly retreat centre in 2027. We’d love to share this magical place and all the inspiration and heart healing of retreat with you. Put yourself and your writing dreams into these pictures. I can’t wait to share it with you! More on the 2027 retreat HERE.

With special love to our wonderful retreaters who made this inaugural Italian retreat such a joy. Love you guys!

Lots of love

Edwina 🙂 xx