JULIA CREEK EVENT

Creek pampering night crowd in the ballroom of the McKinlay Shire Council chambers
Julia Creek pampering night crowd in the ballroom of the McKinlay Shire Council chambers

 

 The night began with Kelly introducing my talk, the guest speaker!

I talked for a few minutes about Thrill Seekers and what it had to do with binge drinking and what I had to do with binge drinking (a lot!) then read “Bloody Virgin”,  a chapter from the book about a young woman losing her virginity.

We then broke into groups and talked about issues raised by the story and shared our own “first time” tales and what we’d do to change them and make them more as we’d hoped they’d be. (And no – not like in Fifty Shades!)

discussion groups

discussion groups

I talked a bit more about the power of rethinking or rewriting your life can have, quoting Salman Rushdie. “Those who do not have power over the story that dominates their lives, power to retell it, to rethink it, deconstruct it, joke about it, and change it as times change, truly are powerless, because they cannot think new thoughts.”

Rewriting the story of my adolescence into fiction has empowered me and I wanted to show the young women that they too, even if they didn’t write, could rethink and recreate their lives.

As I told them, “Shit happens. It happens to all of us. You can either roll around in it and get dirty and stinky or you can use it as fertilizer and make your life a beautiful garden.”

We then wrote love letters …  to ourselves!

 

We sang “Brave Bold Woman”and stomped our feet in a circle holding hands. It was lots of fun – though looking at the photos I think I was enjoying it the most! The others were probably in shock. At least they’ll always remember my talk and hopefully a song to make them feel strong when they need it.

Brave Bold Woman!

Brave Bold Woman! Stomping freak.

brave bold woman circle

brave bold woman circle

It was a great night. Kelly got her pee in jars and everyone got pampered and goodie bags!

 

JC Girls with goodie bags

JC Girls with goodie bags

MY OUTBACK ADVENTURE

Dawn, Julia Creek north west Queensland

Dawn, Julia Creek north-west Queensland

Well I’ve made it home safe and sound from my wonderful outback adventure to Julia Creek, a speck on the map about 250 kms east of Mt Isa in nar north-west Queensland. The flight from Brisbane took about 2.5 hours and I was lucky enough to have a window seat to watch as the body of Australia  sprawled out before me, all man-made straight lines at first till the lines became fewer and further between, eventually giving way to the softer curves and tendrils of river systems now dry, the veins and arteries of this wide red-brown land.

aerial view over north west QLD

aerial view over north-west QLD

Kelly, the community nurse in Julia Creek, had googled binge drinking, found my name and organised for me to make the trip. I arrived in Mt Isa, “Man Land”, populated by rugged types who worked in the mine that dominated the town, but it was still a long drive ahead. It was a steep learning curve going from my three cylinder Daihatsu charade to my rented 4WD that felt like a truck.  I was glad to have it though as the road loomed in front of me empty but for 5o metre long road trains. The landscape between Mt Isa and Cloncurry took me by surprise with its beauty, red rock mountains dotted with dark green. After Cloncurry the land flattened out and all the way to Julia Creek the horizons stretched endless and flat.

Mt. Isa

Mt. Isa

It wasn’t the red desert I’d been expecting however, but grey-green pastureland, home for thousands of head of cattle, mainly Brahmin, that graze on properties bigger than some European countries.

I lost count of the number of dead kangaroos by the side of the road, swarms of crows and hawks lifting up and circling as the car approached.

my 4WD at Julia Creek

my 4WD at Julia Creek

Finally I arrived in the one wide and empty street that is Julia Creek. I went expecting a tough indigenous community, like my sisters had experienced in Aurukun,(Paula Shaw, Seven Seasons in Aurukun), but instead found myself in an episode of McLeod’s Daughters (an Australian TV drama series set on a cattle station populated by beautiful, blonde, young women).

The “Ladies Pampering Night” (disguising a drug and alcohol awareness and STD information event) was held in the council chambers in a  ballroom with polished wooden floors. I did my interactive session based on the “Bloody Virgin” chapter in Thrill Seekers, and had everyone talking and laughing by the end. Then Kelly the nurse followed up with a talk about Chlamydia (and yes, she succeeded in getting everyone to pee in jars before they left!)

 We all then got to the pampering that included free eyebrow waxing and tinting, foot massages, nail painting, clothes shopping, and information stalls on domestic violence and drug and alcohol abuse.

I met nurses and teachers and governesses and local teens, and even real live cowgirls! But the people who made the biggest impression were two indigenous women;  Shirley who educates people about domestic violence prevention in Mt Isa and Leann who raises awareness of drug and alcohol issues. Strong brave women doing a world of good. I hope I’ll get up to Mt Isa again to work with them both.

Everybody got to take home a goodie bag filled with condoms and lube and information booklets, a copy of Thrill Seekers and one of Fifty Shades of Grey. I’m hoping some of the best-selling success will rub off!

Leann and Shirley

Leann and Shirley

The next day I had a book launch for Thrill Seekers at the local library where we sat around in a cosy group chatting about the book and I read again, this time “Mates and Mushies“.

After that Kelly drove me out to a nearby cattle station where I met Edwina the farmer and her family. The kids had a governess and a pet kangaroo called Jeff, as well as calves they roped and led around.

Ella and Rudolph who thinks he's still a calf

Ella and Rudolph who thinks he’s still a calf

They showed me their school house where they had lessons by phone and then the water feature fed by artesian bore water that they swam in every afternoon. The water comes out of the ground so hot that in summer they use their hot water systems as cooling units.

Everyone I met in Julia Creek was unfailingly warm and welcoming. They loved their tiny town and its community and I was honoured to be their guest, if only for a short time. I am very grateful to Kelly Lemon, the community health nurse for hosting me and making my trip so memorable.

Thrill Seekers is finding its own way in the world, from the women of cattle country to teachers in India. I look forward to where it will take me next.