BLISSFUL BALI BLOSSOMS! 2024 Bali Writing Retreat Rundown.

Happy campers with our vision boards, freshly minted.

The magic of Bali and the kindness of the people worked their miracles again this year on retreat. With a small group due to some last-minute mishaps, (poor chookies, luckily we ask all participants to hold comprehensive travel insurance) we were able to spread out over the beautiful grounds of Bali Ecostay and enjoy the peace and privacy of our exclusive use of the unique open air bungalows, lulled by the ever-present music of the stream running through the property and powering our lights. With water drinkable straight from the taps, sourced from Bali Ecostay’s own spring, and all organic bath products as well as delicious food prepared with love and sourced from their own incredible permaculture gardens and food forest, we were able to totally relax into the Bali of days gone by.

Every day the local elder, dressed in traditional garb, prepared floral offerings and delivered them to our bungalows, the temples in the gardens, and to the sacred waterfall, making every day feel blessed indeed. On our first day the local women dressed us up in traditional kebayas with sashes and taught us how to prepare our own floral tributes then led us to the temple to offer them to the gods of the property, the river and the village, to bless us all, and all the staff. We even blessed the kitchen utensils! To close the ceremony, we daubed our foreheads and throats with grains of rice, tucked flowers behind our ears and scattered them through our hair. Such a beautiful ritual and an honour to be included in this sacred ceremony.

As usual on our writing retreats, our greatest joy is watching new writing friendships blossom. Writing can be a lonely business so connecting with other like-minded souls in a supported environment is a special element of these writing adventures away from home. From Victoria, with 35 books under her belt, to Carol, right at the start of her writing journey, to Kylie straight out of the outback sharing her hilarious stories about bulls, to Yvonne writing of her battle with debilitating illness, to Yuan fascinating us with stories of her great-grandmother who was a Chinese pirate of the south seas, we had an intriguing group, growing closer through the week, until we all felt like sisters by the last morning, sad to say goodbye. So much creativity and inspiration and many epiphanies about projects underway and new projects to begin. Because all activities are optional on our retreats you are free to create the retreat you most need – lots of learning or lots of writing time. Interaction or time alone.

Our mornings began with gentle yoga in the spectacular open-air yoga shala, a mandala of fresh petals at the centre, incense and flowers scenting the air. Then to a plentiful breakfast – fresh tropical fruit, coconut yoghurt, toast, eggs, tomatoes, fresh delicious greens, coffee grown on the property, ginger tea for me, plus pancakes with butter and sugar palm syrup and homemade jam and other sweet treats depending on the day. Yes, we were stuffed like Christmas geese! Luckily many scenic walks through the food forests to the waterfall and spectacular rice paddies are easy to find. And writing takes energy too!

The morning workshops were fun and interactive as well as informative and inspirational, incorporating guided meditations to get our retreaters writing up a storm. From freewriting to carefully curated prompts, to sharing craft knowledge and know-how on structure and all aspects of creative writing, these workshops incorporate sharing and discussion as all voices and input is valued and appreciated. It’s basically an entire university course on creative writing crammed into a week, so retreaters needed to put on their brain-caps, and wear their happy pants too.

Afternoons were reserved for rest, writing, adventures, swims in the waterfall, and one on one feedback sessions with Kerstin and I, plus tarot readings later in the week to offer new insights as participants prepare to move into a new phase of their lives after the retreat – empowered and believing in their right to tell their stories, rewrite the past and create a brave new future of their own making.

As the sun set each day, we gathered again in the yoga shala for some calming yoga breathing (pranayama) to clear our minds, relax deeply and prepare for a restful night. Cocktails and glasses of wine were ordered as our lovely kitchen ladies brought out our dinners, each one delicious and followed by scrumptious desserts. Everyone had their favourite. I love the black sticky rice pudding with hot coconut cream. Kerstin craved the lime dairy free cheesecake, or was it the dairy free chocolate gelato or chocolate pie? Let’s just say we feasted happily without having to lift a finger!

First collage by the very lovely artist and writer, Julie Parsons

On the final day we discussed publishing options and got our heads around submitting our work and, as is traditional in the final session, we left words behind and used collage to create vision boards for the future using images and colour. We shared what we’d created and our dreams, laughed and encouraged each other as we set intentions for the lives we want to lead, and the pain we want to leave behind. Our final night bonfire took our pain and our dreams to heaven as we stood together by the rice fields dancing with fireflies, creating light of our own. Our readings night saw both laughter and tears, with people sharing work and testing their voices, inspiring us all.

As always, I found this retreat richly rewarding, connecting with many special writing souls who gave as much as they received. So thank you my dear new friends for sharing this special week with Kerstin and I and for giving so much of yourselves, for supporting each other, for listening and for speaking up, for your writing, your inspiring creativity and your kindness, laughter and smiles. 

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, it’s the people who come along on these retreats that make them so special. THANK YOU!

Are you ready for a grand adventure? Bookings are now open for Blissful Bali 2025 June 23 – 29. All the info here.

In 2025 we have Vietnam in February (10 – 16) also open for bookings, Bali in June, Italy in October and introducing our first Writing for Wellness Retreat in Byron Bay in November. You can book both Vietnam and Bali now and we’re working on getting the others up as soon as possible.

Super keen? Make sure you’re the first to know by joining the waitlist for your preferred retreat. Just drop me a line and I’ll add you to the list. And for all the latest retreat news, writing advice and publishing opportunities subscribe to my newsletter.

Put yourself in this picture and treat yourself to the writing adventure of a lifetime!

Now write like the wind!

Lots of love,

Edwina xx

DO YOU NEED A WRITING BUDDY?

Writing can be a lonely business but it needn’t be! The greatest joy of my writing life is connecting with other writers, through my workshops, editing and retreats, but even more so connecting with other writers who help me iron out the problems in my own work – my writing buddies!

Over the years I’ve had several different writing buddies and some that have lasted the whole long way. These writing friends hold a special corner of my heart. A unique trust develops as we share often deeply personal work and help each other figure out how to make the words sing, how to get the message across more clearly, or how to fix that awful character you just can’t figure out.

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Can’t see the forest for the trees?

When we’re writing, especially longer works, it can be hard to see whether the structure is working or if our characters are likeable for all the words in the way. We can’t see the forest of our book for the trees of our laboured-over words. This is where the eyes of another kind writer can help. Another writer can stand above our forest and show us the way through. They can say, “Hey, you’ve veered off to the left here, away from the main story, time to get back on track,” or “Hmmm, seems like you lost one of your characters after chapter 3,” or “Wow, your dialogue is great, but a lot of the time I don’t know which forest we’re in. You need more setting detail.” You get the gist.

Gay and I have been writing buddies for a while now (as well as retreat buddies).

Friends and Family?

We can show our writing to friends and family and they may say nice things… Marion’s partner famously said, “Jolly good,” about everything she wrote. Or they can say not so helpful things like, “Who’d want to read that?” like my ex once did. If your family member or friend is an avid reader or a writer themselves, then their feedback is useful and of course we want to keep them as our cheering squad, BUT if we want useful, applicable advice, it needs to come from someone on the same path – a fellow writer.

Enter the Writing Buddy

If you’re lucky you already belong to a writing group where members read and critique each other’s work. Keep these groups small, no more than five, or the feedback can become overwhelming. But really you just need one good writing friend who you can show work to when you’ve gone cross-eyed reviewing it on your own. That fresh pair of eyes to see what you’ve become blind to is invaluable, a treasure in fact.

For many years my writing buddy Helena and I exchanged manuscripts and helped each other polish them to publishable standard. My friend Marion was also invaluable. Now I belong to a writing group of five authors whose help is incredibly useful, even just doing short pieces. And I have wonderful feedback buddies in my international retreat cohost Kerstin Pilz and my other retreat friends. Every reader willing to give feedback is a valued gem, even if all they do is fix typos. But the very best writing buddies can see the big picture of what you’re trying to achieve and help you get there.

How do you find a writing buddy?

I met my first writing buddy, Marion, at a QLD Writer’s Centre Workshop – we caught the bus together and started a writing group as we chatted on the way home. Helena and I met as students doing the Mphil in Creative Writing at UQ. I met Vahida my lovely new writing buddy on a retreat at Varuna House. And now I have my writers group made up primarily of fellow writing tutors at UQ and my treasured retreaters, including the beautiful Gay whose new book is coming soon! Can’t wait!

So to find your writing buddy I recommend you go places you’ll meet other writers in real life. Online buddies are okay, you can get critiques from people on GoodReads and other online places like fan fiction sites, or through Facebook groups. Attend writing workshops, treat yourself to a retreat, connect with like-minded writers who have a trick or two up their sleeves and arrange to meet regularly to exchange work for feedback. Don’t be afraid to ask, “Hey, would you like to swap work for feedback sometime?”

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Why feedback matters

Of course you can continue blithely on your merry way alone, but feedback from a fellow writer will only improve your work and increase your chances of publication, or a wider readership. Feedback points out problems we may not have seen, but deep in our guts knew were there. Feedback shows us what our strong points are and where we may need a bit more practice. Feedback shows us that someone has read our work with attention to detail and cares enough to help us improve it. Feedback matters.

Have you got a writing buddy? Or a writing group? Do you swap work and compare notes on your writing? If not, why not? Start now!

If you’re still looking, then sign up for a few workshops or come along on a retreat and find your people, ask one or two of them if they’d like to share work for feedback, or make a writing group.

Writing buddies make writing more fun!

We all need friends in this crazy business full of rejection and criticism from strangers. Our books are our precious creations and beginning to show our work to trusted fellow writers toughens up our writerly skins to prepare us to share our writing with the world. Writing buddies cheer us on when we get a lucky break and help us drown our sorrows when a rejection hits hard. They encourage us to brush ourselves off and get back on the horse that threw us, sit back at the desk and start writing again. Besides, writers’ meetings can include food and wine and lots of laughter.

Have fun! Life is short, find a writing buddy to share your love of words today!

Lots of love

Edwina 🙂 xx